What’s the buzz #43

How did we get all the way to mid-August without me posting my July round-up! Well I guess partnership ceremonies, exams and birthdays do tend to make us a little busy!

This months fabulous writing

Do you fuck you friends? by David Davies

I love insights into other peoples lives and this one filled my heart with joy. I love playing with friends but this past year or so has made that somewhat tricky! Playing doesn’t just mean fucking and that’s why I loved this piece so much, it recognised a whole diversity of connections. Oh and there’s needleplay too, so that helped *grins*.

Fucking machines and why I love them by Joanne’s Reviews

I’m so glad Joanne wrote a piece on fucking machine considering she is where my partner went to for advice on which one to buy. But reading it has opened up my eyes to a whole new reason for their use. We live in a very ableist world so forget about the fact machine fucking can actually make people lives so much easier. I too find someone between my legs painful, thanks to bursitis in both hips, so maybe machine fucking is the way forwards for me too!

Sex shouldn’t hurt by Zebra Rose

This one hit me right in the feels. We’re told that sex shouldn’t hurt and if it does there’s something wrong. And yet for many of us that’s simply not true. It maybe down to a particular disability or it maybe down to a short term condition. Whilst it shouldn’t hurt and new pain should definitely be checked out, it most certainly can hurt and not always the good kind!

This months gorgeous images

The superhero you need! by Honey

What is not to love about this. It’s fun and sexy all wrapped up in one brilliant bundle. On top of that it totally taps into my geeky side so she wins all around!

My wild by Floss

This made me well up with emotion but I can’t put my finger in exactly why. It’s an incredibly powerful and beautiful image. It’s very rare we see post pregnancy images and yet they’re something that should be shown with pride. Instead of focusing on the changes in a negative way, we should focus on how brilliant our bodies are at adapting to growing a new life.

Posterity by Exposing 40

Bloody hell! If anyone is going to fall in a spectacular way then it’s going to be E40! I’m so glad she’s kept her humour because this must be incredible painful, even if it is beautiful.

Seductiveness of life by Molly

Maybe I’m a bee by nature not just in name because this image immediately caught my eye. The vivid colours and the variety of wildflowers are stunning. I think all beautiful bums should be framed by wonderful wildflowers!