This months fabulous writing
Vagina, vag-OWW-NO by Quinn Rhodes
I think Quinn’s ability to be completely open and tackle such hard subjects is fantastic. We don’t live in a perfect world, our bodies ‘fail’ us in some of the most bizarre and irritating ways. I use the word fail in inverted commas because it isn’t a true failure, it just feels like that on a deeply personal level sometimes. I’m lucky I can experience sex in a pain free way, not everyone is so lucky. Vaginismus is a subject that rarely gets spoken about and yet affects, I suspect, many more women than the statistics show because so many women won’t report or discuss it.
Hearing loss in the bedroom by Miss Eve E
This really resonated with me. I had mumps earlier this year and whilst I haven’t had too much in the way of lasting effects my hearing is definitely more muffled, especially deeper male tones. I find myself lip reading as someone speaks to me to make sure I don’t miss anything, beards really don’t help with that! However, it can be very frustrating in the bedroom and bordering of dangerous when it comes to kink. I need to be able to clearly hear instructions to understand whats going on and communicate effectively. It’s meant we’ve had to adjust the way we do things, I need a bit more time to process instructions and my partner has to check in with me more often, especially if I don’t have eye contact, to make sure I’ve heard what he’s said and reponded to him.
Relax! You’re probably not masturbating too much by Girl on the Net
I’m a proud wanker! It’s something I do to relax, calm myself down after a bad day, help me get to sleep or just cure five minutes of boredom. I was knocked backwards by the idea of No Nut November, a whole month without an orgasm…no way Jose! Whilst I am a huge fan or orgasm denial, I do need to orgasm on a reguar basis. As I already mentioned, it relaxes me. No orgasms for a month would turn me into a grouchy monster, best avoided at all costs. It is claimed not orgasming clears your mind, if I haven’t orgasmed for few days, all I can think about is my aching cunt. Orgasms are healthy, masturbation is healthy.
This months gorgeous images
Witch by Molly’s Daily Kiss
I make no secret about my love for grave yards, I think they are beautiful places. In fact, I think I may know where this one is and I really need to get back there again to explore. I digress. When I first saw this image I hadn’t noticed her lurking in the background, it made me wonder if she’d cast a spell on me, only to reveal herself on my next glance and create a different image to what I’d seen in the first place.
Stranger Things by Cara Thereon
Not only has she used the theme of one of my favourite TV shows, she has done it absolutely justice. Not only can we see her in the upside down, the lack of face adds an extra creepy layer to the image. Perfectly brillant and yet sexy too.
Worn differently by Submissy
This brought a huge smile to my face. I’m a huge fan of DM’s and have a few different pairs of differing styles. I’ve always gone for styles that don’t quite fit in with expectations, bright colours or different coloured laces etc. This post really brought things home for me, whilst people just see the exterior of me, deep down I’m someone that never fits in anywhere. I’m always an outsider, different to the others in some way.
Pencil work by Exposing 40
This is awesome on so many different levels! In some ways it looks like a completely differen person, I can clearly see it is E40. Not only that, I’m so glad she went down the old school editing route. The outcome blew me away.
