I’ve written about my struggles with dirty talking in the past and that extends to phone sex too. I still feel, as a sex positive person, I shouldn’t find it so difficult but I’m far sexier through written words and images than I am through the spoken word!
Phone sex is something I’ve never done, or at least never done comfortably. I’m just awkward and clumsy which just makes the whole experience rather unsexy, defeating the whole point.
Maybe this is down to me rarely speaking to people on the phone. Most of my communication is done via text, tweet or email so a phone conversation isn’t really in my comfort zone, unless it’s ‘can you grab a pint of milk while you’re out’.
Even looking back into the past it’s not something I’ve had much experience with. Before email was easily available I sent letters to someone I was in a long distance relationship with. Again, written word rather than spoken.
Maybe I should try phone sex but something tells me I am the way I am and I’m not going to change too much.