I’ve written about my struggles with dirty talking in the past and that extends to phone sex too. I still feel, as a sex positive person, I shouldn’t find it so difficult but I’m far sexier through written words and images than I am through the spoken word!
Phone sex is something I’ve never done, or at least never done comfortably. I’m just awkward and clumsy which just makes the whole experience rather unsexy, defeating the whole point.
Maybe this is down to me rarely speaking to people on the phone. Most of my communication is done via text, tweet or email so a phone conversation isn’t really in my comfort zone, unless it’s ‘can you grab a pint of milk while you’re out’.
Even looking back into the past it’s not something I’ve had much experience with. Before email was easily available I sent letters to someone I was in a long distance relationship with. Again, written word rather than spoken.
Maybe I should try phone sex but something tells me I am the way I am and I’m not going to change too much.
Kayla Lords
I feel like I’m shit at phone sex (no matter how many times I’ve done it). My method is to say, “Yes, Daddy” (to JB, of course, lol) a lot plus a lot of “Mmmm” and “Uh huh” — no need to talk, just listen, do, and mmmm from time to time.
Mrs Fever
I am a lover of well crafted words, written or spoken. And if my lover wishes to give me sexy words via voice, I’m all ears.
There is something to be said for written desires, though. And in my relationships right now, sexual correspondence – the detailed, personalized, erotic back-and-forth of extended shared writing – is… Lacking.
Having had that kind of interaction, with others, in the past… I don’t have it now, and I definitely feel the void.
Zara
Great picture to sum up the topic. I feel the same as you about phone sex it sure isn’t my strong point. I was hoping to write something about sexting vs phone sex but after reading the prompt thought my post will be quite short, after seeing yours I feel ok with that so I might try and meet the deadline. Unfortunately my post wont have the creative edge yours does with the photo.
Accidental Masturbator
In the days before marriage, when there was someone with whom to enjoy phone sex, I quite enjoyed it. It could be difficult get to g started, but swapping masturbatory instructions usually worked well.
Of course, that was in the days before smartphones, and I suspect Skype/Facetime have changed the landscape a little. I would have thought that was a good gateway.
Exposing40
Phone sex is not something I’ve done much of but I’ve found it hot when I have. Maybe I should try it more but I think I’m too visually stimulated – I prefer Skype or the exchange of photos and filthy words with people I am far from. Xx
Floss
This is great image to accompany this post. I am also really awkward at dirty talk. It has become easier since I began my FemDom journey, but the idea of phone sex is still a no go! Just the thought of it makes me feel incredibly unsey, so I think it’s just not part of the way I express myself sexually 🙂
Aurora Glory
I’m totally with you on the phone sex! I’m awful at it and just feel too uncomfortable. I wonder if it’s because I can’t see them and their reactions and don’t have the time to really think about my response as I do in sexts.
Aurora x
LittleSwitchBitch
I’m pretty crap at it… I’ve tried and think that’s where my issue is – it feels forced. I’m def better with text but even then I use images. It’s not something we do much as we are usually together but on the rare occasion, it’s more an image thing accompanied with some words
Jo
This would make a great stock photo! Are you comfortable sexting / dirty talking in person?
Molly
That is a very cool photo to go with this subject. I have definitely had some very hot phone sex in the past. With the right person it can be fabulous
Mollyx
Elliott
I like your illustration, clever. I’m with you regarding talking on the phone, although I have had some Nice Face time interactions with a friend but there wasn’t much talking, so that’s one form of phone sex. And now sending photos would be phone sex also, so there’s that.
silverdom
Great image to accompany your awkward experience of phone sex.
M and I got so good at it when LDR, that our phone bills were astronomical. This was 20 years ago, when international calls were very expensive.