This may not come as a big surprise to many of you but domestic servitude is not my kink.
Household chores are exactly that for me, a chore. They aren’t something I enjoy at all, they’re simply something that has to be done or I’d live in a pig sty and I can’t handle that either.
In our house we split the chores between us, I even have a timetable on my fridge door to keep me on track. An hour each evening after work is far more preferable than spending my weekends being stuck indoors doing the housework rather than going out and enjoying ourselves. Quite clearly staying home right now is the right thing to do, I’m talking in more general terms of the past and one day the future.
There are chores he is better at and chores I am better at. He loves to cook, I hate it, although I love to bake. Actually I also hate the ironing, the washing up and the cleaning but I can’t let him do it all!
Not only that we both work long hours, I have a long commute at each end of my day so coming home and doing all the housework as his service sub just isn’t going to work. I have been told I’m not a twue sub if I don’t serve him properly in that way. Well fuck the haters, the only one twue way is the one that we’ve negotiated and works for us.
All this said, I have to admit I do envy all you kinky folks out there who do make household chores your kink. I do occasionally make it more interesting by wearing a rope harness or butt plug when I’m told to but for the most part chores get done in between all the other life admin that needs to get done so kink rarely crosses my mind at the time.