This may not come as a big surprise to many of you but domestic servitude is not my kink.
Household chores are exactly that for me, a chore. They aren’t something I enjoy at all, they’re simply something that has to be done or I’d live in a pig sty and I can’t handle that either.
In our house we split the chores between us, I even have a timetable on my fridge door to keep me on track. An hour each evening after work is far more preferable than spending my weekends being stuck indoors doing the housework rather than going out and enjoying ourselves. Quite clearly staying home right now is the right thing to do, I’m talking in more general terms of the past and one day the future.
There are chores he is better at and chores I am better at. He loves to cook, I hate it, although I love to bake. Actually I also hate the ironing, the washing up and the cleaning but I can’t let him do it all!
Not only that we both work long hours, I have a long commute at each end of my day so coming home and doing all the housework as his service sub just isn’t going to work. I have been told I’m not a twue sub if I don’t serve him properly in that way. Well fuck the haters, the only one twue way is the one that we’ve negotiated and works for us.
All this said, I have to admit I do envy all you kinky folks out there who do make household chores your kink. I do occasionally make it more interesting by wearing a rope harness or butt plug when I’m told to but for the most part chores get done in between all the other life admin that needs to get done so kink rarely crosses my mind at the time.
Jupiter Grant
Lol, terrific shot! I hate chores, too!
Ouizzi
I can’t imagine there ever being a way to make chores fun but your picture is a lot of fun 🙂
Focused and Filthy
Love your fluffy tail image – I’m with you on the chores front. I hate doing them and most of the time get some help. Obviously not at the moment. Hub and I split things pretty equally but I tend to shop and cook. He tends to wash and iron. I’ve done the odd chore with plug or nipple clamps on. It will never make me like doing them but it does pass the time better!
Missy
Ps you’ve got a great bum.
Julie
That looks a great way to do cleaning. I’m no domestic sub either, though my standards are higher and so I end up doing more.
Quenby
Great minds think alike 😁
DeviantSuccubus
This is such a cute picture! And I very much am with you on this: I am not a service sub, and I don’t like doing house work or cleaning, so we split it too.
Luv Bunny
Love the composition, and you have a cute butt! I also thought it was a tail plug on first glance!
I’m stay-at-home mostly, though not a service sub; It’s the ex-housekeeper in me, who likes a tidy home, haha. I did stop ironing a fair while ago, however!
Miss Scarlet
When I first saw the too of the image, I wonderland what it was going to be! I thought it was the top of a head! It’s fabulous anyway!
a mental switch
Now I get the picture 🙂
Making chores part of a D/s dynamic would so take me out of it. I agree they are chores. Idk maybe it works better for people where one partner stays at home maybe?
Victoria Blisse
Great photo. Not precisely a service sub here, either so totally get what you mean. 🙂
Modesty Ablaze
Brilliant, brilliant photo !!!
And I’m totally with you on household chores … they should definitely be excluded from the D/S norms !!! (Even if I do grudgingly say so myself!)
Xxx – K
Molly
Yep I mostly feel the same… although the only way to clean the bathroom as far as I am concerned is naked
Molly
LittleSwitchBitch
And here was me thinking you were the complete domestic goddess 😉 x