What’s the buzz #9

This months fabulous writing

Is this real life? Is this just fantasy? by Bears Little Cub

The sex blogging and kinky community relies on a great deal of trust and consent. We have to believe others are telling the truth. Obviously most of us have to hide our identities for family or work reasons but what you see here on our blogs are the authentic ‘us’. When someone comes along and destroys that trust and weaves us into their lies without consent then it becomes dangerous. People look to us for help and advice, if we aren’t who we say we are more people are put at risk or harm.

Cognitive Dissonance by Knk Striped

This highlighted the fine line we have to walk along everyday. Do we report every instance of sexual assault, every grope, every touch without consent? The obvious answer is yes. But the answer isn’t that simple, if we reported every instance we would be reporting almost everyday and then we become the person who cries wolf. However, doesn’t saying nothing just mean that kind of behaviour is acceptable?

Panties and petit four by Quinn Rhodes

Whilst public humiliation wouldn’t work for me in real life, I don’t believe those who didn’t consent to observe it be forced to witness. Yet in the fantasy world it ticks my boxes. Not only do we have a hot little scenario, we have a hot little scenario with cake. How could it get any better?

Give me a break by Molly’s Daily Kiss

Once again Molly has given us a post to make us really think. It’s often assued, in a D/s relationship, that once your boundaries have been set they are set in stone. Well thats just not possible. Humans are fluid beings, our wishes change and most imporantly our needs change. Be it a new job, a new family or anything else sometimes we need to take a step back and re-assess and renegotiate our roles to suit.

Ten by Hannah Lockhardt

This absolutely brilliant story is something Hannah wrote for me. Bringing a cuck-cake into our life would be a dream come true for both of us. Until then I have my filthy cuckquean fantasies to keep me amused.

Bi Bloggers You Should Know: An International Celebrate Bisexuality Day Special by Coffee and Kink

I can’t let this month go by without mentioning Bi Visibility Day and CK has developed a list of so mant wonderful bi bloggers out there, so if you’re a bi blogger and your name isn’t on the list let her know so she can add you.

This months gorgeous images

Robes of glory by Molly’s Daily Kiss

I want summer back, I want to feel the warmth on my skin again. The colours in just make me feel as if I’m there.

Casting off the shackles by Floss Does Life

This is such a beautiful image. The colour pop really catches your eye and leads you into the rest of the image. The words are powerful too, a woman’s needs to not die when she becomes a mother, she is the same sexual being as before.

Bodyguard by Rebels Notes

Red appears to the colour of this round up. I love how the colour appears to envolope Marie, hugging her close and the way it stands out against the backdrop is stunning.

Sinful Sunday 388 featuring The Bumble Bee by Sex Machine Reviews

This one literally has my name all over it. As a lover of all things electro I am so envious of this and when I have time will have to look into how to make one. It is truly fabulous!

Fierce feelings by Cara Thereon

We’re back to red again with this one but this time we have some fantastically fiesty fishnets and an amazing arse to go with it!