What’s the buzz #33

This months fabulous writing

I do not forgive by Kitten via Smutathon

This is a tough but really important read. If you don’t understand the struggles AFAB people have with being believed by the medical profession then you really need to read this. If you come away thinking this is a one off, then you’re very much mistaken. It makes me both sad and angry and yet I understand how she feels because I’ve given up trying to speak to a doctor about my issues, there is just no point.

Unlearning the lessons of the past by Molly Moore

I felt so much guilt when I read this. I’m kinky so I should be so much better at sharing shouldn’t I? Well I’m not and that fills me with so much shame. I know it comes from a place of not feeling good enough rather than distrust. It’s something I’ve been working on for a long time and I love sharing when I can see and hear what’s going on but being apart and missing out on all that deliciousness makes me panic and spiral. I know I’ll never be polyam but I want to just relax and enjoy myself with friends in ways I’ve dreamt about for a long time.

Seriously please stop gender reveal parties by Girl on the Net

I have absolutley no idea why there is a need for gender reveal parties. Let’s face it, they aren’t about revealing gender because that’s a societal concept, they’re about revealing sex. And why is that important? It isn’t! I understand few a relatively few cases where genetic illnesses play a bit part it would be helpful to know and understand the risks faced. But even then there is no need to wave your wang about and share that knowledge with the rest of the world, who quite frankly don’t give a shit.

Compassion by Pain as Pleasure

This hit me right in the feels. The line “Do people really remember how they felt as a child? Apparently they do” left me astounded. Do people remember their childhood and do they remeber how they felt?? I certainly don’t, although there are foggy memories of fear. I don’t remember the cartoons I watched, I don’t remember the holidays or the school days before secondary school. It’s a black hole. When I saw a therapist, before I was unceremoniously dropped after saying BLM was important, I was told some quite devastating things I’ll now not be able to process. I don’t think my parents are bad but I’ll never really understand what happened either.

This months gorgeous images

Set up by Zebra Rose

Setting up shots is never quite as easy as it sounds! But I love this selection and there’s a little piece of me that would love to give a tug on those chains making her hiss and growl.

Bared souls by Little Switch Bitch

This woman has the art of fishnet photography perfected. How can you get better or more sexy than this? The outstretched legs leads us into the image and I imagine we’re all imaging crawling up her and exploring her as we go.

Dragged by Honey

Apparenly this week is all about chains! And i want to grab these chains between my teeth and pull her towards me making her moan.

Waning crescent by Maria Opens Up

Oh. My. Goodness. How fabulous is this!? I just don’t have any words that do it justice, so I’ll just say WOW!

Make hay by Focused and Filthy

I’m a real sucker for outdoor shots and I just want to be laying out on this hay bale making the most of the late summer sunshine warming my skin for the last time before the cold weather made its appearance.