What's the buzz #32 • A to sub-Bee

This months fabulous writing

I felt this so hard. And whilst I’ve had Mirena coils it wasn’t them that stole my orgasms, it was anti-depressants. That feeling of needing a release and yet that release never came, which in turn increased the frustration until tears poured down my face.

Will you still love me if I’m not a horny slut? by Quinn Rhodes

This piece resonated so much while at the same time left me feeling so sad. We all go through cycles of being horny or not. That coupled with our state of mental health, especially at a time of great uncertainty in a strange new world just increases those feelings. Will our partners still love us if we don’t want to fuck? If they really do love us then of course they will, we are so much more than a walking fucking machine. Logical thinking tells us that and yet our brains often tell us something very different.

How cisnormativity in blogging is alienating your trans peers by Mx Nillin

This is another piece that made me sad but it also made me very angry. Society is incredibly gendered and for most people, that isn’t a problem. However there are huge numbers of trans and non-binary people that are deeply impacted and actively harmed by this. People need to listen when people tell them this and they need to actively stand up and make changes. Go and read about people’s experiences, reflect on your use of language and realise that most of the time gendered language is totally unneccesary. We cannot afford to lose brilliant bloggers like Mx Nillin from our community, we cannot keep accepting cissexism, we need to accept people for who they are in order for this to be a positive space.

I get off on being treated like shit by Guest Post on Girl on the Net

This piqued my interest as soon as I read the title, so much so I had to stop what I was doing and read it straight away. Humiliation isn’t well understood. Even the seemingly sex positive humans tend to yuck on this yum. I admit it’s a fine line to balance along, it isn’t easy and it’s not for everyone. And yet it’s something I crave, something I wish I could find someone else that will indulge me. And I wish the book recommendation in this piece was still available because I would buy it in a heartbeat so I could explore more about what I want. Other than bringing me to that needy edge of squirming desperation that I desire so much.

This months gorgeous images

At leisure by Zebra Rose

Lockdown has it’s benefits. One of those is all the beautiful and downright sexy images that Rosie is sharing with us.

Sand dunes by Focused and Filthy

My chin hit the floor when I saw this. That vivid blue of the skies and the beautiful beach backdrop made me realise just how much I miss getting away for a break. Couple that with boobs, which just make everything so much better.

Dwell in Darkness by Little Switch Bitch

I love atmospheric images and LSB has nailed that with this one. She is so beautiful and the angle on this draws our eye across her body to her lovely bottom.

Fairy woods by Molly Moore

I know I’m slightly biased with this image but it was far too beautiful not to share. There are so many happy memories tied into this area of woodlands for me and I can’t put into words how it feels to be able to share this with my beautiful friends.

Erotic energy by Honey

I have so few words for this image because this is too beautiful for words. I’m utterly beguiled.