This months fabulous writing
Anticipating My First Caning by ML SlavePuppet
I’m someone who historically was terrified at the thought of a caning and who has only dared to try it out in the past year. This post really played on that mindset. I could feel the anticipation, the excitement but also the uncertainty. I found I was reading whilst holding my breath, clearly I had been pulled deeply into the moment.
Sex Lies by Tabitha Rayne
From the first line of this I was twitching. I love hearing about what he wants to do to others, I love being teased and turned on by the fantasy of him being with others. I find it so hard to deal with in my head, its something I both want and not want all at the same time. But hearing those stories never fails to get my cunt aching for his hard cock.
Men: your consent matters too by Girl on the Net
My instinctive reaction when I saw this title was ‘ugh’. Not in the way you think, I absolutely agree with everything said. More because the of whole consent discussion and double standards we have in society make me ragey. Consent is everything, consent is sexy, no-one wants an encounter that isn’t consented to, at the end of the day consensual non-consent scenes are consented too and boundaries pre-arranged. Yet we all see it on nights out in town, men being groped by packs of women because its a bit of a laugh. No it isn’t! Same goes for arranging sexual or kinky encounters, all partners need to consent and all partners are perfectly within their rights to withdraw that consent at any time. No amount of ‘but you promised’ should change that!
The problem with causing pain by Purple Sole
Following on nicely from the previous post, this really got me thinking too. So many of us fall into the trap of believing Dominants are the most experience and confident of partners, I know I’m guilty of that! I think it can be especially true of male Dom’s in a relationship or maybe that because it’s what I experience personally? Men are taught never to hurt women so in BDSM scenes where the opposite is played out it can be a difficult object to face. I know I often remark on how he loves to hurt me, his instinctive reaction is to shy away and say no and yet I see the glint in his eye when he does. That’s not to say he would do anything to either harm me or do something I hadn’t agreed to. I do know there are times he doubts himself but I see that as a positive, it means he needs to be considered and thinking about what he does, that makes him a far better partner and dominant than someone who is cocky and arrogant.
Just because you don’t see it by Cara Thereon
This is something I’ve been seething about for a while now and not knowing quiet how to approach the subject. I’m not the greatest at debating subjects, I lack either the confidence or the knowledge. I also worry that if I speak up I’ll been seen as ‘rescuing’ people who really don’t need to be rescued. Cara’s post specifically refer to racism but the same can be said about sexism, homophobia etc. It surrounds us, it happens every day and for the most part we don’t notice it because it isn’t happening to us. Recently I saw the woman on the train who refused to move her bag so a black man could sit down next to her, I said nothing because I assumed she just didn’t want to move her bag. It was only later when a white man asked her to do so and she jumped up did I realise what I’d seen. These small micro aggressions seem like nothing until we’re on the receiving end, then it hurts deeply. I learnt from my mistake, I try to keep more awareness about me but I also know I’m far from perfect and I also can’t fight every battle I see. Society needs to wake up and act!
This months gorgeous images
The Perfect Bow by ML Slave Puppet
Never mind the perfect bow, wht about the perfect heels, the perfect legs and most perfect bum. I’d say the whole image is pretty perfect!
Something Interesting by Ouizzi
This is such an unusual angle it captured my attention straight away. Other than being envious of being able to hold this position, I just love all the lines it gives us. The way her shoulders and upper back have rippled is so sexy, I have a bit of a think for shoulders. And her taut thighs are stunning!
Duality by Honey
We all have mutliple sides to us and I love how this has captured two sides of honey. The silhoutte hides so much away and yet it also gives us so many details we may not have seen too and I’m a real sucker for high contrast images too. A duality in so many ways.
Affirmation by Marie Rebel
Wow! How sexy is this? Another seemingly simple image that reveals so much more. We can all identify with not being at our best, that life has got in the way and left us feeling a bit bruised. And yet we don’t change, we’re still beautiful and sexy to others. This coy little tugging of her panties to the side let us know that deep down she still knows her sexiness has an impact on others.
