I know I’m running a bit late with this months sharing, life has been a little hectic! So it’s Share our Shit Sunday instead, my apologies for being so disorganised.
This months fabulous writing
If you’re reading this anywhere except girlonthenet.com, it’s stolen by Girl on the Net
I’ve seen a whole bunch of different warnings going around on social media recenty about people scraping work from other sex bloggers. This is not ok, ever! Quite often blogs are a source of income, stealing our work is stealing our income. If a blog is just a hobby, it is no different. What people write is deeply personal to themselves. Taking those personal accounts, using them as your own is taking a piece of us. Worse still is taking that work, that piece of us and interlacing it with derogatory links! Go read this blog by Girl on the Net, she explains it far better than I could!
The Thrill of Shame by Submissy
This resonated with me so much. We all have those deep, dark desires we don’t like admitting to ourselves let alone others. Yet those desires turn us on in ways other fanstasies do not. I really want to be braver and discuss my darkness on my blog but so far I haven’t really touched on them at all. Humiliation is something we have to be very careful with, its a fine line between feeling squirmy and turned on to feelings of deep shame that make us want to hide away. Quite often things do have to stay as a fantasy as the reality could be quite damaging but exploring themes with the right person can be the hottest and filthiest thing imaginable!
Vulnerability (In Short) by His Lordship
This is a beautifully written piece that has made me think quite a lot about both my own vulnerability and that of my partner. I’m becoming quite open about my own vulnerability, being able to express how I feel enables me to grow as a person and has clear benefits on my mental health. My partner, as my dominant, expresses his far less than I’d like him to. I’m speaking about male dominints here because this is where my experience lays. I think there is a general feeling that dominants and men in general have to be strong and therefore can’t show their vulnerability and it’s perceived as a weakness. In reality, I think this is completely mixed up. Opening up and discussing feelings is not a weakness, it is a strength and a strength that will build far better communications within relationships.
I will not chase the boys by Sex Blog of Sorts
This piece really resonated with me. Whilst I have been fairly lucky that I’ve bounced through life getting laid one way or another it has been mostly the ‘or another’. I’ve quite often been the pity fuck and the one who gets a fuck because someone has lost a bet and I’m the booby prize. Even during our swinging days it was me that put couples off, with many requests that my partner met them alone as I wasn’t what they were looking for. Its one of the reasons we gave up looking for play partners. Whilst celibacy isn’t the right term for it in my case, the rejection I still feel hurts so damn much.
This months gorgeous images
Sepia Dreams by Candy Snatch
There are no words that can describe this stunning vision. Whether its her bubbly pinkness or her sultry black and white she always leaves me speechless!
Bottom by Exposing 40
Once again she has perfected the high contracts black and white image. Her photography skills blow me away. Such simplicity and yet perfection.
Hide and Seek by Focused and Filthy
I just love the playfulness in this. This twists my being hunted in the woods fantasy from something very dark to something fun in a child-like way. Naked frolics in the outdoors with warm sunshine on skin is pure joy!
Day 11 – FebPhotoFest’19 by Little Switch Bitch
Wow! That perfectly formed white bottom surrounded by such vibrant red lingerie really caught my attention. This defines sexy!
There are so many images to choose from this month thanks to Molly’s February Photofest. Go and check them out!
