This months fabulous writing
Should I stop talking about ‘filthy’ sex? by Girl on the Net
No! Please don’t. Whilst I understand there are negative links to sex and adding words such as naughty, filthy and dirty can play on the minds of those that already feel some shame. I also think there should be some transgression to sex. Personally I want to be on the edge of shame, I want to feel like I’m pushing boundaries with whats acceptable. Loving, tender sex is absolutely ok if thats your bag but give me a hard, messy fuck any day.
What were you expecting? by Hannah Lockhardt
This is something I’ve always shyed away from. I’ve never been into any form of pee play but this put a completely different spin on things for me. In fact it’s almost changed my mind. This wasn’t a hard and seemingly uncaring Dom, this was something caring and loving. Since reading it I’ve given myself a couple of orgasms whilst desperate and WOW, what an intense feeling that is. Maybe, just maybe, its something to consider for the future. Thanks for making me think.
Emotional Masochism by Submissy
Another post that really got me thinking about who I am. I’ve never liked physical pain, I will submit to someone who wishes to cause me pain and I love the marks that are left. However, I really get off on emotional pain, which I find incredibly hard to articulate or assimilate. I love seeing and hearing my partner fuck someone else. I love being pushed to one side and humiliated whilst he does so. This is not about him being abusive, it is all about pre-agreed limits and consent all round. Degrade me and humiliate me and you are more likely to turn me on.
Returning to kink after miscarriage by Euclidean Point (guest post for Girl on the Net)
I’m so glad someone is brave enough to write something like this and I admire her so much for doing so. I think this also works for all sorts of other forms of trauma too. Be it illness, physical or mental, or a life change, our bodies are still the sexual being they were before. I think kink can be used to punish ourselves and for the past year or so I’ve wondered if, for me, its been a form of self-harm. However, since reading this I’ve come to realise its not about punishing myself at all, its about wanting to feel again, wanting to feel alive and escape the pain that has been harming me.
Why couldn’t I just ask for lube? by Kayla Lords
Oh my goodness this is me! I’ve always been copiously wet but there are times when I dry up. Whether it’s because I haven’t hydrated myself properly or if my partner has been drinking and goes on forever, I swear he’s the Duracell bunny in disguise! But during those times do I reach for the lube, of course not, I just grit my teeth and hope it will be over soon. Why don’t I reach for the lube…who knows! I know thers no shame in needing it but probably its because its just out of reach and I don’t want to break the moment, or we’re away and have forgotten to bring it with us.
A picture is worth a thousand words by John Brownstone
This broke my heart. I really enjoyed Kayla and Johns February Photofest, seeing how they viewed each other was heartwarming and I was hoping to see more. So to hear John has been having body issues since saddened me. However, I think we all understand how that feels. Whilst I will never shame someone for their body I think its also important to look after ourselves where our health is concerned. Well done for losing the weight and I’m so glad you’re feeling better physically and mentally. I hope this means we get to see more of you again.
This months gorgeous images
Lido by Exposing 40
This is just brilliant. I love all the colours, they’re so vibrant and it screams of summer and playful fun.
Mount by Accidental Masturbator
Not only is this so clever, the editing is technical and so brilliantly done. Not only that it really made me chuckle. A perfect image.
Dangerous Woman by Little Switch Bitch
WOW this is so hot! It instandly brought out the subby side in me! From the corset when we get to see glimpses of skin through the lace to the boots with those wicked looking heels. But most of all the power that oozes from her position make this so damn sexy!
Pinstripes by Maria Opens Up
I have always had a bit of a thing for pinstrips. There is something so smart and sexy about them. But Maria has managed to create the pinstrip look whilst being naked and for me, that is so clever and sexy in itself.
Closed for business by Tabitha Rayne
There is a stunning elegance to this image. The seemingly relaxed position on the chair, her beautiful feet and her breast just peeking over her bent thigh. But the image isn’t all I love about this post. Its heartbreakingly sad but honest and its a feeling I undertsand only too well myself right now. We’ll both find ourselves again, I know we will.
