I’ve had enough of hearing idiots tell women how their bodies work. They appear to be wet between the ears!
If you think vaginas get bigger or looser every time a new penis enters them, you’re an idiot. By the way, does that theory also work with sex toys? Which leads me into my next point. If you’re afraid of using sex toys with your partner, or think they’re a replacement, you’re an idiot. Seriously, being scared of a bit of glass, silicone etc?!
One of my bug bears is the idiots that tell me they can breath through their ears whilst giving oral. As someone who isn’t a big fan of oral, I’ve often been told my partner or previous partners are doing it wrong. Honestly, insulting other people isn’t going to make me fall at your feet. Do these idiots not hear themselves?
If there’s one phrase that really gets under my skin, it’s hearing how if a woman is wet then she’s turned on. No, no, NO!
Some women will be aroused but need the help of lube. Others, like me, are constantly wet. That is one of the beautiful things about us human beings, we’re all different!
Being constantly wet is something I’ve dealt with for as long as I can remember. I won’t call it a problem because there are far worse problems to have! Having said that it does have its down side, there are days where I need to change my underwear in the middle of the day which isn’t always that practical. I have less need to do that with a shaved vulva, pubes sticking to underwear is never comfortable!
Then of course there are up sides. I rarely need lube when using toys, unless they’re silicone then I’ll need a bucket of lube. If fact, using lube makes everything too slippery and I don’t feel the delicious sensations I’d like too.
Also, it means I can still have PIV sex even if I’m not completely ready. For example, my partner can wake me up in the middle of the night by sliding his cock into me, yes, I have consented to him doing that. If I’m not aroused initially, I soon will be!
So whilst it can be an irritation, I actually don’t mind being wet all the time. I’m a horny slut who craves sex whenever she can get it so being wet, wet, wet really isn’t too much of a problem. But please, just don’t assume that means I’m always aroused.