I was just thinking about how I was going to write this post when I read the introduction to the subject and I was thrown completely.
I had always considered mutual masturbation as masturbating each other, there was no question in my mind. So imagine my confusion when I was faced with the possibility I had been getting it wrong all these years. Perhaps it wasn’t masturbating each other at all, perhaps mutual masturbation was masturbating yourselves whilst your partner watched. That thought hadn’t even crossed my mind!
Being the sort of person that overthinks everything my mind was stuck in that conundrum. In fact for the last week I’ve focussed my thoughts on little else when I’ve had a spare moment. I even asked around a few friends and was relieved when they (mostly) agreed with me.
However, I’ve since come to realise it actually makes not a bit of difference on the terminology at all. Masturbation, whether for a partner or to a partner is hot whichever way around it is. And quite frankly, in my experience, it’s rarely an either/or scenario. There’s usually hands everywhere on me, on my partner(s) and vice versa.
Which nicely brings me into a time where we enforced a strict no touching rule. We both went about a week with no sex and no masturbation at all. Then we found ourselves in a beautiful hotel room where the no touching each other rule was also enforced. Or at least, no touching genital rule, we couldn’t physically keep our hands off each other completely!
After getting back to our room after an evening out we tore at each other’s clothes, leaving them in a jumbled pile on the floor. We clawed at each other, our kisses deep and intense. I scrambled onto the bed and straddled his lap. My hands kept reaching for his cock but they were pushed away from him to between my own thighs. My cunt was slick with my juices already, aching to be filled. His cock was as hard as I’d ever seen it, never had I wanted to wrap my lips round him so much but I knew I couldn’t.
Watching him stroke and tease himself soon got me stroking my clit. Leaning in to kiss him I could feel him rubbing against my belly. Him being turned on by my fingers alternating between dipping in and out of my cunt and circling my clit, me being turned on by watching him vigorously pumping his cock.
Neither of us could hold back for long. Both of us coming at the same time, I’m certain we both triggered each others orgasm. Crying out and our bodies shuddering together. It was one of the most intense orgasms I’ve ever had, my clit throbbed long after we’d fallen into a heap in each other’s arms.
Was it strictly mutual masturbation? Seriously, who the fuck cares when something is as insanely hot as that was?