When I first saw this topic I instinctively thought nope, nope, nopity nope!
I then mentioned the topic to Sir he winced and made it clear no steel rod was ever going to be inserted into his urethra unless it’s medically necessary. Honestly, I was very relieved at that, I’ve always said our D/s dynamic shouldn’t create any barriers to experimenting, I don’t believe any act is in itself submissive, it’s the attitude and mindset that makes it so. Having said that I’m glad not to be in a position of responsibility when it comes to inserting anything into his cock!
Switching it round to me, would I like to be on the receiving end? Instinctively I’d say no, it sounds far too painful for my liking. I’ve heard that there is more risk of damage and infection in women because the sounds are the same length but we have shorter urethras than men. How true this is, I don’t know, I’m not a medical professional nor have I looked into it in any kind of depth. However, there is definitely something about it that intrigues me, totally different sensations and being fucked in a totally different way along with the mind fuck that I’m sure would accompany it. Actually that sounds quite hot now I’ve written it down!
I don’t know if it’s something Sir would be completely at ease with, it isn’t something we’ve really spoken about. Whilst sounds and urethral play don’t actually feature on my limits list it’s not something that features on my must do list either. I think I’ll leave it in the never say never category, who knows what the future will hold.