I’ve always been known to be headstrong, some may even say bloody minded! I generally know what I want and work out how to get it. It does mean that thoughts and plans can overwhelm me at times.
So how do I break away from that? Broadly, that’s what kink does for me but some have a deeper impact on me than others. Needles will relax me, impact play gives me a release I need but most other things I just find fun. Rope is one of those, I love the feel of being tied but I rarely react to it.
Until yesterday that was. I saw this beautiful tweet from @KandlesbyKitten and my eyes lit up. I’ve never experienced a head tie and I wanted to see how it felt. And try we did, as soon as the rope surrounded my head I started floating, definitely a first for me and hopefully not the last time that happens.
So there we have it, what to do with someone that’s overwhelmingly headstrong, wrap their head in something even stronger!