Contraception – Snip, snip, snip

28.07.2020

by sub-Bee Keeper
Open pair of scissors

Normally, when your doctor asks “Is there anything else you’d like to discuss?”, you thank them for their time and make for home. This time was different, this time I had something on my mind. For a while prior to the appointment I had been thinking about my life choices regarding not wanting to be a father, to be honest I’m not a fan of little people and not wanting one of my own is enough to make me paranoid when it comes to birth control. Before meeting Bee I had always used condoms during sex but, at the beginning of our relationship, she revealed that she had the coil and we decided to forgo the rubber. As the years passed, Bee’s coil needed changing and things did not go smoothly with the replacements. I watched as she had to give up one solution and try another, unfortunately the implant came with it’s own issues. So, back to me sat in my doctors office, “Yes” I said in response to his question, “I would like a vasectomy please.” It felt like is was ordering at a drive thru, well, until the questions began. I was asked to confirm my age, asked if I had children, told I may change my mind and that this would not be easily reversed when I do want children. After repeatedly assuring that this was truly what I wanted he handed me some printed information and referred me to a specialist.

Walking into the lounge at home, Bee was unaware of my discussion with my doctor… that was until I dropped the information in her lap. After a minute or so of her frowning at me for littering her she finally read the titles and realised what I’d done. Immediately, she wanted to come with me for my initial consultation with the surgeon. This I was glad for, it’s always good to have a second pair of ears to pick up anything I may miss. We walked into the clinic and made our way to the man who would perform the deed. After repeating the same questions I had during my original request and confirming that this was indeed something I wanted done we moved onto the intricacies of the operation. We could tell this wasn’t his first rodeo as he reeled off an endless list of abbreviations whilst simultaneously drawing diagrams all upside down. The meeting ended with me being handed a tube of anaesthetic cream and an enormous plaster with instructions to put them on an hour before I arrived for my next appointment.

The big day came. I shaved my balls which was a first for me, I only ever trim normally as being a hairy guy both Bee and myself think I’d look a bit weird with a bald patch between my thighs. It had been a week since the consultation and I was trying to remember where I had to put the cream. The diagram I had been given was basic to say the least so I decided to use a little more than the suggested “pea” sized amount and spread it around a bit. I wrapped round the comedic plaster and dressed ready to head out. We arrived at the clinic and took our seats in the waiting room, it wasn’t long before I was called into the office. On entering the room the doctor welcomed me and introduced me to the nurse that was assisting him. I was then left with instructions to remove my jeans and underwear and lay down on the bed in the middle of the room handing me a sheet of tissue to cover my genitals, because they weren’t going to be seeing it all soon enough. On their return, the radio was turned on and finally it was time to begin. First, everything needed to be numbed so out came the needle, Bee would have been jealous! Thanks to the cream that I had applied earlier I didn’t feel the numerous “pricks” as the local anaesthetic was applied. Once he was happy that I was numb enough, scalpel in hand, he opened up a small hole at the base of my testicles holding it open with a clamp. Whilst the surgeon was busy the nurse talked to me, checking I was ok and asking if I had any holidays coming up, it felt like I was at the hairdressers. In no time at all, and before I had noticed, the tube to my left testicle had been cut and sealed. Half way through, and as he began working on my right something wasn’t quite right. Now, when I was at school there was an incident where a steel toe capped shoe was introduced quite forcefully to my groin. Since then I’ve had areas where I have no feeling and some that are more sensitive. Fast forward to the current operation and suddenly I can feel , although dull, the cut and sting as the ends of my tubes were being cauterised. Now I’m not say the surgeon was at fault and I’m sure if I’d have said anything he would have injected more anaesthetic but in fact I was enjoying the sensation, knowing something was being done. Again in no time he was done, a couple of stitches, a quick dressing and the operation was complete. Everything felt fine as I got up, I was given some further information regarding aftercare and lead back to Bee who was waiting patiently in the waiting room.

As with every D/s scene, aftercare is an important thing when you’ve been under the knife. I was sent home with strict instructions not to involve my genitals in any sexual acts for at least a week. Other than being a little sore I was feeling ok for the few days after the operation… I felt that ok that on day four I thought I’d have a quick wank. I thought I was being gentle and it all felt ok, that is until I went to stand up! The pain was not something I was expecting, my groin was beginning to ache more and more. Slowly stepping into the shower I started to wash as things seemed to be getting worse, I felt like I was going to black out. Fortunately, after a few deep breaths, I managed to finish washing myself walk to the bedroom and laid down. Let’s say I was definitely more sensible for the remaining few days.

So, that’s it, thank you for reading this far, I hope my tale has provided a candid point of view and hopefully not scared off those who might be considering it. It has taught me to adhere to instructions especially related to my health and I feel our relationship is the better for it.

Part five to follow

Read part one here
Read part two here
Read part three here

Written by sub-Bee Keeper

Attempts to wrangle his naughty sub and keep them under control. Also tech support and photographer of atosubbee.com Pronouns: He/Him

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5 thoughts on “Contraception – Snip, snip, snip”

  1. This was actually really enlightening. I’ve always known the procedure itself is pretty simple compared to a woman having her tubes tied, but never realized how much. Thank you for sharing.

  2. Thank you for sharing your experience. This is really helpful for others contemplating a vasectomy (my poly pal being one of them!)

  3. slave sindee

    well done. i had mine done over 28 years ago. my pain level was bad enough for me to pass out. Sirgeon was mad at me for not telling him i was in Pain. i apolgized and smiled inside. I did follow all other instructions and had no other problems.

  4. Thank you for sharing this, Cuiplash underwent a vasectomy a few years ago after my coil failed and we experienced an unexpected pregnancy loss. It all went well despite bruising, very tight pants and gentle handling for a few days and we welcomed the freedom it granted us. Heal well!

  5. Thank you sharing. My husband got snipped years ago. We looked into getting my tubes tied and he felt the procedure would be far more taxing in me than a snip for him. We were still relatively young, maybe 34-35. He did donate and freeze some sperm “just in case.” In fact, we still pay for that storage today and were just talking about whether to have it destroyed (but that’s another story). Anyway, his procedure went very well – no issues or complications. He always encourages other men to choose being snipped over having their wife be tied. Of course, while not part of the consideration st the time (as we were monogamous back then), it means that now that we have a very open relationship he never has to worry about getting anyone pregnant.

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