Before I start I just want to make it clear that when I’m discussing clothed top, naked bottom I’m not actually talking about forgetting to take half of my cloathes off! It is of course a dominant partner, or top, remaining clothed whilst the submissive partners or bottom, being naked.
It is a kink that definitely works for me, I love the feeling of power over me. Whilst I love being naked, it gives that nakedness an additional level of humiliation.
Clothes really do mean power. Think of work attire, someone in a suit and tie oozes power, not always the right kind unfortunately. Same with wearing your favourite pair of underwear, lingerie or stockings beneath them to give you the confidence for an important presentation.
I was fortunate that before covid I had an CMnf event I could attend. I started out really enjoying them, although that first time I was so nervous. I would be going with friends and that meant my friends would see me naked for the first time in the flesh, yes they’d seen photos of me but I didn’t have to look them in the eye!
Sadly, it came to a point where I didn’t look forward to them as much as I initially did. They became social events which meant they lost that sexy, humiliating edge. But more than that, they were very strictly gendered events, with the tops being male and bottoms being female. As I was questioning my gender that made me feel like I didn’t belong so I was actually quite relieved the events stopped and I no longer needed to attend. Just to be clear, I loved seeing my friends but we could socialise outside that setting.
I haven’t actually played with this kink properly since I attended the events, yes there was an element of that at our wedding breakfast but not in the strictest of senses. Maybe it’s because we haven’t been able to play in group settings. However, I think there definitely needs to be more clothed top and naked bottoms in my future!
mywildlens
It sounds like a really interesting kink to explore. I hope that there are plenty of opportunities!
And this image – oh my goodness.
skingraphy
What a lovely photo… Love those lips and wearing only a t-shirt always look super sexy
Modesty Ablaze
Oh that photo !!! So, so sexy !!!
I never attended the CMNF events because for me … or rather our situation … the dynamic was the wrong way round.
I definitely feel it should not be about such specifics gender-wise, but more about the D/S arrangements of all.
Xxx – K
Floss
What a fabulous image 🤩 there’s something so hot about just a t-shirt being worn and nothing else
Jerbear
I’m a lover of the cfnm dynamic so I sort of have an understanding of your feelings.
You have a very attractive “bottom” I’m sure it was/ is appreciated. It is by me. Thank you for being so brave, strong and sexy.
William
Have read about CxNx events, but never plucked up the courage to seek them out and attend them. Now might be a good time to seek some events out and find out what it is like.
HappyComeLucky
I have read your words but to be honest, it has taken me ages because I have just spent all the time drooling over your picture.
I think there are definitely very hot clothed top, naked bottom scenarios. It needs a large amount of objectification. I have ideas that keep my fingers busy at times.
Molly
I always enjoyed the events because I loved the club and the play and yes the social aspect very much but the being naked part never felt that highly charged as there was no dynamic with anyone but your partner (which is as it should be because consent) but it made for a fun time rather than a hugely sexy time in my experience
Molly
Victoria Blisse
There is something so powerful when others are clothed and you are not. I get it. Love the image too!