It all started after I finally escaped from a dead end relationship. I was lonely and wanting to explore another side of me. During an evening spent drinking and chatting with a friend, the conversation turned to swinging and then to her suggesting we should go along to an adult party. Me, being quite naive back then, didn’t think that was possible as a single. I thought you needed a partner to swing after all how else are you supposed to swap partners?!
As soon as she left I grabbed my laptop and decided to research this idea some more and within 10 minutes had registered on a well known swinging website! Needless to say, as I was a single girl, it wasn’t long before the messages started flooding through.
It had been a week or two when I got the most intriguing message, instead of the usual ‘Hi babe, fancy a fuck?’ I got a story or more precisely an unfinished story. Intrigued, and a little excited, I replied, adding the next instalment to the fantasy. The story went back and fourth a few more times before finally we started to get to know each other. On looking at his profile, it seemed clear we were after different things, so not wanting to string him along I made it clear that we’d never meet. We continued chatting to each other, getting to know our likes and dislikes when suddenly it dawned on me he genuinely made me laugh and I’d look forward to the next time we’d chat.
The it happened, it was during one of our conversations when i asked him what he looked like and he uttered those fateful words ‘well, some of my friends tell me I look a little like David Tennant’. Well that was that, I don’t tend to have celebrity crushes but he was mine and if I couldn’t have the real thing well a look-a-like would have to do. He sent me a photo and he wasn’t lying, there was a resemblance. I thought for a bit, then my mind was made up. Even if he wasn’t exactly what I was looking for it would still be fun and anyway, it would be a one off. So we arranged a drink for the following week.
After a shaky start, each thinking the other hadn’t turned up before eventually realising we were sitting next to different doors in the pub, we found each other. He was incredibly cute and adorable, again not what I was after, and we seemed to hit it off straight away. After one drink we couldn’t hold ourselves back, the spark was there and we didn’t want to fight it. We arrived at mine, clothes being pulled off before we’d even walked through the door. To say it was great was an understatement as we spent the entire night fucking. It went so well we even called into work sick the following day so we could spend the next day fucking too! (Shhhhh, don’t tell the boss!)
Now, this is where our one night stand went a little awry. You see, almost 5 years after we met he still hasn’t really left. He’s still cute and adorable but he also has a wonderful naughtiness about him. He’s an amazing guy who’s discovered a different side of himself and we have both continued to grow together with our feelings and our experiences.
I’m so thankful for that tipsy conversation I had with my friend without it I wouldn’t have discovered how much fun you can have chatting online and most importantly I wouldn’t have met Sir.