Grooming each other is something we haven’t really done much of. I’m not a big fan of being fiddled with too much, clearly there are caveats to that because I enjoy him playing with me.
Even with professionals I’m not good with being fiddled with. I’ve had my toes painted once and I’m not sure I ever really want to experience that again. I’ve also had a facial, it was horrible, give me the other sort of facial any time. I’m not even a big fan of having my hair washed by a hairdresser and from what I can tell I’m in a minority with that.
All that said I have let him shave me before. The first time was when he shaved my cunt, the rash I got was incredibly sore. But my favourite of all is when he shaved my head, you can read about that here and here. And again, due to not being able to get to the barber during lockdown he has been shaving my head again. Not down to the scalp this time but I love how my hair feels shaved. And whilst it’s not counted as grooming, him stroking my hair is just the best feeling.
Floss
Oh I so get where you’re coming from with the being fiddled with. I haven’t been to the hairdressers in about 5 years, I don’t enjoy having my hair washed when I go and as much as I sometimes think I’d like to go and be pampered but in reality strangers putting their hands on me isn’t all that relaxing for me, lol! I guess it’s all a little bit different when it’s our special someone/s fiddling with us though and that’s a beautiful thing 🙂 xxx
Julie
I think there is something lovely about your partner stroking your head / hair. I love having my hair washed at the hairdressers and have enjoyed various beauty treatments. But I do get not wanting to be ‘fiddled with’.