When I first saw the topic was going commando I thought this kink had my name all over it. But then I stopped and thought about it and realised it’s actually not that straight forward.
I spent most of my teen years never wearing underwear, my mother gave up trying to insist I wore them in the same way she’d given up insisting I wear dresses. It was at that time I always wore quite individual clothing too, I didn’t own a pair of jeans because I didn’t want to follow the crowd.
Fast forward to now and I seem like a completely different person. Whilst I admit I still don’t necessarily follow the crowd, I have somewhat mellowed a bit and happily embrace my weirdness in other ways.
I now live in jeans in fact I own about twenty pairs. I have ones I wear to work, I have cropped ones, I have ones to wear for an evening out and so on. Not only do I live in jeans, I will wear them time and time again, jeans are not a wear and wash item as far as I’m concerned. It’s for that very reason I refuse to wear jeans without underwear, I just don’t think it’s hygienic.
I do love going out in skirts or dresses without underwear, I love giving him a quick flash before we go out, or grab his hand and get him to feel I’m not wearing any just as we leave the house. I get a huge range of reactions, from a huge grin to the rolling eyes because we’re off to see his family, deep down I know he appreciates my naughtiness.
Strangely I have never been asked to remove my panties whilst I’m out, even though I think it sounds so sexy. Although, the chances of us going out somewhere where that’s possible alone, i.e. No family around, is fairly slim. Also, as I mentioned previously, I’m more likely to be wearing my ‘going out’ jeans which means panty removal is a little more tricky!
It’s not always good to be commando though, it pains me to say it because I do love the warm breeze against bare skin. When we go scavenger hunting I’ll often wear a dress I can whip off quickly and no underwear. Yet when I’m walking a fair distance being commando can actually get quite painful, you see, my labia have a habit of rubbing together and I’ve ended up with sore chafed areas. It’s made far worse if I haven’t shaved and I have wiry pubes added to the mix too!
So there we go, I love going commando… mostly. But seeing as it gets uncomfortable to the point of painful and not in the good way, I don’t think I can class it as a kink of mine unfortunately.
KinkyKrissy
i always wore undies, usually a thong, (he picks out most of my clothes, and undies from everyday wear to my business clothes) except on a “special occasion” when i’d go commando and drop a few subtle hints for him…
after i quit working, i quit wearing much of anything except yoga pants, tank tops and flip-flops.
now on the special occasions i dig into my thong drawer !
Aurora Glory
I’ve never been asked to remove my panties whilst out either and now I’m gutted about that fact Lol! I need to drop some hints I think.
Aurora x
Cara Thereon
I have to wear panties when I’m in jeans or dress pants. And if I’m at work (I wear scrubs) I can’t can’t can’t go without panties.
Miss Scarlet
I totally agree about not wearing jeans without knickers, As much as love not wearing knickers, I only do it with a skirt or dress,
Molly
I rarely get the chaffing thing although if it is super hot then sometimes it does happen which was why I took knickers on holiday to Greece with me just in case it was THAT hot. It wasn’t and so they never got worn
Mollyx
Jo
I’m with you – it feels really good to have a draft under my skirt or flash a partner, but as for walking distances with no knickers, forget it!
Mrs Fever
You mention how walking can be chafe-y. I find I have the same issue when I’m playing court sports. Undies bunch and fall off my hips and ride up and and and… Aaaargh! But going commando can sometimes chafe. I need to find a happy medium.